Now when he had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. 1Samuel 18:1

Then Jonathan and David made a covenant, because he loved him as his own soul. 1Samuel 18:3

If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination. Leviticus 20:13

For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature.  Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due.  Romans 1:26-27

God is not against two men loving one another, but He is against people having sex with the same sex.  At the same time, people are very quick to judge and condemn homosexuals and hypocritically judge them while they are guilty of sins that are worthy of the same judgement.

So what is the answer?

All have sinned and come short of the glory of God...
for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, being justified freely by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, whom God set forth as a propitiation by His blood, through faith, to demonstrate His righteousness, because in His forbearance God had passed over the sins that were previously committed

Everyone needs to change their mind, turn away from their sins, be forgiven through the blood Jesus shed on their behalf and receive His gift of life they are now clean to receive.  After receiving Jesus Christ as their Savior, they must also live in Him as their Lord.  Since Jesus died for all, all are dead.  We must live for Him, not for ourselves.

Lord Jesus please help us all and continue to have mercy on us all.  Help us all be real with you as you are real with us.  Thank you for your love and mercy.
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Can a man be in love with another man?